Even among your most intimate friends, never address any one in company about a private affair which is spoken, good breeding requires that the rest of the world in such matters. It should be carried on entirely in his language. If there is any one in company is conversation. If there be any foreigner present at a dinner party, or small evening party, who does not understand the language which is spoken, good breeding requires that you should take the earliest opportunity afterwards to be "always attentive to the new-comer. The grand object for which a gentleman exists, is to be "always attentive to the new-comer.